
From day one, our mission has been simple: make shared masturbation normal, safe, fun, and proudly ours.
And every single one of you proves that this space was needed — not “nice to have,” but essential.
It’s wild to think that barely a year ago we were celebrating 2,500 members.
Now? We’re a full-on members-only circle of bators from every background, every corner of the world, all vibing with the same idea: there’s nothing wrong with wanting to connect, stroke, share, and feel good together.
So here’s to you — the hosts, the room regulars, the shy lurkers slowly coming out of their shell, the real gooners, the late-night scrollers, the bros who keep this community alive every single day.
You’re building something that’s more than an app.
You’re building a culture.
8,200 and rising.
Thanks for being part of it — and for making Batemates the safest, sexiest, most unapologetically bator space out there.
And trust us… this is just the beginning.