How Batemates challenges the clichés of what a “man” is.

In 2024, it is way too common, still, to stumble across many clichés when it comes to “men” and what defines them. Especially when it comes to sex platforms!

No, a man doesn’t have to look “perfect.” He doesn’t have to look like a bodybuilder, be hairless or white, or flex giant muscles in a speedo. That is absolutely not what most men look like. Instead, we have body fat, we can be feminine, hairy, thin, chubby, Black, Latino, Asian, hung, in our 20s or 50s, be into makeup and grow a long beard, be extravagant, be introverted. However you are. That’s what a real man is.

How Batemates addresses the taboo.

In most cases, men perform the act of masturbation in secret. Waiting for their partner to be gone before they enjoy the pleasure of a ten minute morning wank before work or in the shower when finally that moment of privacy finally comes. Any moment alone is good for a quickie. If it’s not in the morning, it’ll be once back home, first thing once the door’s shut to wind down from a very long day… whatever it means. If single, the lucky ones will allow themselves a morning bate and an evening solo pleasure, if not on lunch break, too… Every occasion is good to masturbate for a man. 

But how many of your friends do you share this activity with? How many of your friends have you been wanting to share this with? And why haven’t you done it yet? Do you wonder, “What if they think I’m weird? What if they find me disgusting? What if my bro understands I’d like to beat my meat with him? What if he gets horny about the idea of seeing me masturbating my penis while I watch him masturbating his penis?”

Chances are, they already thought about it.

What if you were able to talk about how good it feels when you satisfy the hard-on you have every morning when you wake up, and how beautiful you find your foreskin pulling back forth, wrapping up around your swollen head, up and down, up and down again, your ballsack full, bouncing as you ride the edge and curl your toes with pleasure, the precum leaking out of that big mushroom head along your shaft…?

Believe it or not, you’re not weird and you’re not alone. There’s a whole international community of like minded people who are just like you, bro.

It’s the bator community. And soon they will all be masturbating on the Batemates app.