A Practical Guide to Being Hot, Not Banned

Batemates is all about freedom and connection — but there are clear lines you don’t cross. From drug use to hate speech, here’s what will get you banned instantly (no warnings, no second chances).

The use of hard drugs on the app is forbidden

Promoting, glorifying, using, selling — or showing up visibly under the influence of hard drugs — means instant account removal. We want Batemates to feel safe, fun, and authentic, not a place for risky or harmful behavior. Keep the vibe clean and the focus on real connection, not substances.

Batemates is strictly 18+

We take this rule seriously. Batemates is a space for consenting adults only, and we work actively to ensure no underage presence or imagery ever circulates here. Language or behavior that references minors, even casually, is strictly prohibited. We expect all users to communicate responsibly and respect the boundaries of adult-only content.

No hate or prejudice allowed on Batemates

Insults, stereotypes, dehumanizing language, hateful symbols, or inciting fear against any group will result in instant ban. We celebrate diversity and expect users to treat others with the same openness they’d want for themselves. Assuming someone is interested in specific kinks, such as raceplay or other sensitive fetishes, without their consent is unacceptable and considered a violation of community guidelines. Respect everyone’s boundaries and never pressure others into scenarios they haven’t agreed to.

Threats aren’t tolerated

Threatening violence and glorifying harm will get your account permanently banned. This includes both direct and indirect threats — we protect our community from intimidation, harassment, or encouragement of harm in any form.

Graphic content alert

Sharing extreme violence, sexual abuse, animal cruelty, etc... = account removed. Batemates is for erotic, consensual fun, definitely not for disturbing, violent, or abusive material.