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YOUR ONLINE MASTURBATION COMMUNITY
Connect with other bators, masturbate together,
and stay in touch, with privacy built in.
18,000+ bators
Connect with other bators, masturbate together,
and stay in touch, with privacy built in.
YOUR ONLINE MASTURBATION COMMUNITY
Expose yourself, stay in control.
18,000+ bators
Connect with other bators, masturbate together,
and stay in touch, with privacy built in.
YOUR ONLINE MASTURBATION COMMUNITY
Expose yourself, stay in control.
18,000+ bators
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Join thousands
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You're tired of getting banned by corporate tools for bating.
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You're addicted to your dong and love exposing on cam
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Frequent questions
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How do I verify my age?
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Got more questions? Visit our support page
Frequent questions
How does the 7-day free trial work?
Is the app available on mobile or iPad?
Who can join Batemates?
How do I verify my age?
Why do I need to verify my age?
What happens if I report inappropriate behavior?
Got more questions? Visit our support page
Frequent questions
How does the 7-day free trial work?
Is the app available on mobile or iPad?
Who can join Batemates?
How do I verify my age?
Why do I need to verify my age?
What happens if I report inappropriate behavior?
Got more questions? Visit our support page
Highlights
Bate rooms
Create or join rooms up to 32 participants that match your vibe in 2 sec.
Bate Feed
Interact with bator bros from around the world
Instant chat
Keep touch with your bros, chat, build community bond.
Bator finder
Find your perfect bate mate among thousands, in seconds.
CHOOSE YOUR PLAN
Monthly
6 months
Save 17%
12 months
Save 28%
Unlimited
Most popular
Unlimited rooms
$17.99/mo
$0.60/day · billed monthly
Unlimited bate rooms, up to 32 bators
BM Roulette Unlimited + Premium features
Unlimited 1:1 private calls
All premium filters, no chat limit
Anti-recording and face detection
Unlimited video posts, up to 20 min per video
Watch unlimited videos in Feed
Plus
20 min of rooms a day
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