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A community for men to connect, explore their sexuality, and feel more comfortable in their own skin. With people who get it.
Connect with other bators, masturbate together,
and stay in touch, with privacy built in.
YOUR ONLINE MASTURBATION COMMUNITY
Expose yourself, stay in control.
16,000+ members
Join thousands in the greatest community ever
Join thousands
in the greatest community ever
Every man masturbates. So do you. Cum be part of a community that embraces shared self-pleasure as lifestyle. Make real connection, find genuine bro bonding a enjoy something we all love without shame together.
On Batemates, you find real bators only. No performers, no judgement, no shame. It's a safe space for finding, connecting and keep in touch. It's a home for bator expression and shared self love.
That feeling of
“I belong here.”
The safe space
that normalizes masturbation
Shared interests can start a conversation. The people you meet can give you a reason to come back.
When we asked members what Batemates means to them, they told us about finding like-minded people, feeling more confident, and keeping conversations going beyond a session.
That's the community we want to nurture: a place where you can get to know others, feel accepted, and take part in your own way.
Shared interests can start a conversation. The people you meet can give you a reason to come back.
When we asked members what Batemates means to them, they told us about finding like-minded people, feeling more confident, and keeping conversations going beyond a session.
That's the community we want to nurture: a place where you can get to know others, feel accepted, and take part in your own way.
Pick a slot that suits you. We start by listening: your goals, your audience and what hasn't worked so far. You leave the call with a clear first idea of what we'd build.
Learn moreWithin 48 hours you get a clear scope, timeline and fixed price. Everything is written in plain language, so there are no surprises later and no hidden extras.
Learn moreTwo focused weeks with daily previews on one shared canvas. You comment directly on the design and see every change as it happens.
Learn moreWe build the site in Framer, fine-tune every breakpoint and test speed, forms and SEO before anything goes live.
Learn moreWe publish, check everything once more and hand over with a short video guide, so your team can edit content from day one.
Learn moreThat feeling of
“I belong here.”
The safe space
that normalizes masturbation
Shared interests can start a conversation. The people you meet can give you a reason to come back.
When we asked members what Batemates means to them, they told us about finding like-minded people, feeling more confident, and keeping conversations going beyond a session.
That's the community we want to nurture: a place where you can get to know others, feel accepted, and take part in your own way.
Shared interests can start a conversation. The people you meet can give you a reason to come back.
When we asked members what Batemates means to them, they told us about finding like-minded people, feeling more confident, and keeping conversations going beyond a session.
That's the community we want to nurture: a place where you can get to know others, feel accepted, and take part in your own way.
What's the vibe like?
The safe space
that normalizes masturbation
Here, everybody's welcome.
Here, everybody's welcome.
The safe space
that normalizes masturbation
The Batemates community is the place you belong to. Regarless of your looks, ethnicities or background, we promote diversity in all of its shapes and form. Away from the clichés and etiquettes of other platforms and of the industry. The bros on Batemates are real people, not performers gooning for views.
The Batemates community is the place you belong to. Regarless of your looks, ethnicities or background, we promote diversity in all of its shapes and form. Away from the clichés and etiquettes of other platforms and of the industry. The bros on Batemates are real people, not performers gooning for views.
What's the vibe like?
The safe space
that normalizes masturbation
Vibrant, Kinky, intense, Open and respectful
Vibrant, Kinky, intense, Open and respectful
The safe space
that normalizes masturbation
The Batemates community is the place you belong to. Regarless of your looks, ethnicities or background, we promote diversity in all of its shapes and form. Away from the clichés and etiquettes of other platforms and of the industry. The bros on Batemates are real people, not performers gooning for views.
The Batemates community is the place you belong to. Regarless of your looks, ethnicities or background, we promote diversity in all of its shapes and form. Away from the clichés and etiquettes of other platforms and of the industry. The bros on Batemates are real people, not performers gooning for views.
What's the vibe like?
The safe space
that normalizes masturbation
A Community With Range
A Community With Range
The safe space
that normalizes masturbation
Batemates was created by a queer POC who never saw spaces like this growing up. So inclusivity here is not marketing. It is the foundation.
We welcome Black, brown, mixed, white, Asian, Latino, islanders, and everyone in between. Different bodies. Different stories. Different desires.
What matters here is respect, connection, and letting yourself be seen.
Batemates was created by a queer POC who never saw spaces like this growing up. So inclusivity here is not marketing. It is the foundation.
We welcome Black, brown, mixed, white, Asian, Latino, islanders, and everyone in between. Different bodies. Different stories. Different desires.
What matters here is respect, connection, and letting yourself be seen.
A word from the founder.
Normalizing and destigmatizing something that we all do
Normalizing and destigmatizing something that we all do
"Before I found the Bators community I thought I was a freak: That I had a problem with masturbation. That it was not normal to do it often. For instance, I questioned myself for the impact it had on my relationship at the time. But after I found out about other Bators, I allowed myself to explore more and came to realize that masturbation isn’t just a quick 10 minute wank… ha! It can lead to a whole journey of self-discovery and healing from what you used to hide. We all come with different stories, but what matters is that when you find your people within the Bators community, those who get you, understand what you like, what you do, and bond with you on it, you feel like you’ve arrived home. With Batemates, my goal is to give this home an address.”
B8tem8te, founder of Batemates.
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Frequent questions
How does the 7-day free trial work?
Is the app available on mobile or iPad?
Who can join Batemates?
How do I verify my age?
Why do I need to verify my age?
What happens if I report inappropriate behavior?
Got more questions? Visit our support page
Frequent questions
How does the 7-day free trial work?
Is the app available on mobile or iPad?
Who can join Batemates?
How do I verify my age?
Why do I need to verify my age?
What happens if I report inappropriate behavior?
Got more questions? Visit our support page
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