The safe space that normalizes masturbation

The safe space that normalizes masturbation

The safe space
that normalizes masturbation

  • WE ALL DO IT BROS, PENIS PENIS PENIS PENIS

We believe that masturbation can range from healthy self-expression to an entire sexuality. Batemates is a platform that puts acceptance, pleasure, and privacy first. If this resonates with you, you're in the right place. You're not weird, you're not lost, you're just a masturBator.

Cum one, cum all. Discover yourself with Batemates.
We believe that masturbation can range from healthy self-expression to an entire sexuality. Batemates is a platform that puts acceptance, pleasure, and privacy first. If this resonates with you, you're in the right place. You're not weird, you're not lost, you're just a masturBator.

Cum one, cum all. Discover yourself with Batemates.

A word from the founder.

Normalizing and destigmatizing something that we all do

Normalizing and destigmatizing something that we all do

"Before I found the Bators community I thought I was a freak: That I had a problem with masturbation. That it was not normal to do it often. For instance, I questioned myself for the impact it had on my relationship at the time. But after I found out about other Bators, I allowed myself to explore more and came to realize that masturbation isn’t just a quick 10 minute wank… ha! It can lead to a whole journey of self-discovery and healing from what you used to hide. We all come with different stories, but what matters is that when you find your people within the Bators community, those who get you, understand what you like, what you do, and bond with you on it, you feel like you’ve arrived home. With Batemates, my goal is to give this home an address.”


B8tem8te, founder of Batemates.

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