More than
More than
Just stroking
Just stroking
It's about
It's about
Connection
Connection
We built a platform made of thousands of men from all over the world who love masturbation more than anything else and who love to bate while watching other men bate their dong.
We built a platform made of thousands of men from all over the world who love masturbation more than anything else and who love to bate while watching other men bate their dong.
What's the vibe like?
The safe space
that normalizes masturbation
The vibe is much better
The vibe is much better
The safe space
that normalizes masturbation
We believe that masturbation can range from healthy self-expression to an entire sexuality. Batemates is a platform that puts acceptance, pleasure, and privacy first. If this resonates with you, you're in the right place. You're not weird, you're not lost, you're just a masturbator.
Cum one, cum all. Discover yourself with Batemates.
We believe that masturbation can range from healthy self-expression to an entire sexuality. Batemates is a platform that puts acceptance, pleasure, and privacy first. If this resonates with you, you're in the right place. You're not weird, you're not lost, you're just a masturbator.
Cum one, cum all. Discover yourself with Batemates.
What's the vibe like?
The safe space
that normalizes masturbation
The safe space that normalizes masturbation
The safe space that normalizes masturbation
The safe space
that normalizes masturbation
We believe that masturbation can range from healthy self-expression to an entire sexuality. Batemates is a platform that puts acceptance, pleasure, and privacy first. If this resonates with you, you're in the right place. You're not weird, you're not lost, you're just a masturbator.
Cum one, cum all. Discover yourself with Batemates.
We believe that masturbation can range from healthy self-expression to an entire sexuality. Batemates is a platform that puts acceptance, pleasure, and privacy first. If this resonates with you, you're in the right place. You're not weird, you're not lost, you're just a masturbator.
Cum one, cum all. Discover yourself with Batemates.
What's the vibe like?
The safe space
that normalizes masturbation
Here, everybody's welcome.
Here, everybody's welcome.
The safe space
that normalizes masturbation
The Batemates community is the place you belong to. Regarless of your looks, ethnicities or background, we promote diversity in all of its shapes and form. Away from the clichés and etiquettes of other platforms and of the industry. The bros on Batemates are real people, not performers gooning for views.
The Batemates community is the place you belong to. Regarless of your looks, ethnicities or background, we promote diversity in all of its shapes and form. Away from the clichés and etiquettes of other platforms and of the industry. The bros on Batemates are real people, not performers gooning for views.
What's the vibe like?
The safe space
that normalizes masturbation
Vibrant, Kinky, intense, Open and respectful
Vibrant, Kinky, intense, Open and respectful
The safe space
that normalizes masturbation
The Batemates community is the place you belong to. Regarless of your looks, ethnicities or background, we promote diversity in all of its shapes and form. Away from the clichés and etiquettes of other platforms and of the industry. The bros on Batemates are real people, not performers gooning for views.
The Batemates community is the place you belong to. Regarless of your looks, ethnicities or background, we promote diversity in all of its shapes and form. Away from the clichés and etiquettes of other platforms and of the industry. The bros on Batemates are real people, not performers gooning for views.
What's the vibe like?
The safe space
that normalizes masturbation
A Community With Range
A Community With Range
The safe space
that normalizes masturbation
Batemates was created by a queer POC who never saw spaces like this growing up. So inclusivity here is not marketing. It is the foundation.
We welcome Black, brown, mixed, white, Asian, Latino, islanders, and everyone in between. Different bodies. Different stories. Different desires.
What matters here is respect, connection, and letting yourself be seen.
Batemates was created by a queer POC who never saw spaces like this growing up. So inclusivity here is not marketing. It is the foundation.
We welcome Black, brown, mixed, white, Asian, Latino, islanders, and everyone in between. Different bodies. Different stories. Different desires.
What matters here is respect, connection, and letting yourself be seen.
A word from the founder.
Normalizing and destigmatizing something that we all do
Normalizing and destigmatizing something that we all do
"Before I found the Bators community I thought I was a freak: That I had a problem with masturbation. That it was not normal to do it often. For instance, I questioned myself for the impact it had on my relationship at the time. But after I found out about other Bators, I allowed myself to explore more and came to realize that masturbation isn’t just a quick 10 minute wank… ha! It can lead to a whole journey of self-discovery and healing from what you used to hide. We all come with different stories, but what matters is that when you find your people within the Bators community, those who get you, understand what you like, what you do, and bond with you on it, you feel like you’ve arrived home. With Batemates, my goal is to give this home an address.”
B8tem8te, founder of Batemates.
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What is Batemates, and how does it work?
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Who can join Batemates?
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Why do I need to verify my age?
What happens if I report inappropriate behavior?
Got more questions? Visit our support page
Wanna know more?
Get answers to commonly asked questions about Batemates, its features, and how we are continuously working on this groundbreaking platform.
What is Batemates, and how does it work?
Is the app available on mobile or iPad?
Who can join Batemates?
How do I verify my age?
Why do I need to verify my age?
What happens if I report inappropriate behavior?
Got more questions? Visit our support page
Wanna know more?
Get answers to commonly asked questions about Batemates, its features, and how we are continuously working on this groundbreaking platform.
What is Batemates, and how does it work?
Is the app available on mobile or iPad?
Who can join Batemates?
How do I verify my age?
Why do I need to verify my age?
What happens if I report inappropriate behavior?
Got more questions? Visit our support page
Wanna know more?
Get answers to commonly asked questions about Batemates, its features, and how we are continuously working on this groundbreaking platform.