Use headphones

We can’t stress this enough: wear headphones. We won’t force you — but let’s be real, you must. Moaning is hot, laptop fans? Not.

Be mindful of the sounds you might not hear yourself: mic reverb, your laptop’s fan, your playlist in the background — all of that kills the vibe for everyone else.

Wanna be a good bro? Plug in.

Only come in the room if you are ready to bate

Don’t be that weird lurker who comes dressed up or with the camera pointed at his face, staring like he’s watching his little Sims world. Don’t be the creepy guy; bros who do that make everyone uncomfortable.

We get it — sometimes you just want a quick peek to see if the room’s good. If you must, do it for a fraction of a second, then get ready and join the party.

Don’t be the loud bro

No one in the room wants to hear your fucking TV show or your Spotify playlist playing in the background. This is literally what makes people leave. Be conscious of your surroundings so everyone can have a good time.

Don’t point your phone at the screen

It makes everyone uncomfortable — you’ll get reported faster than you can say “Oops.” So be respectful! And honestly, just like you wouldn’t be on your phone during a date, be present here — or go watch some regular porn instead.

Read the room

We all dig enthusiasm, but if you’re repeating the same line on a loop and someone’s not vibing, just dial it down or shift your focus.

If it’s a face room show your face, or get out.

Even if face detection is not enabled, if it says FACE room in the title, show your face. Not half, not a third, your full face.
When you come to rooms where everybody is playing by the rules and you’re not, assume you make everybody uncomfortable and upset.